Tuesday, November 10, 2009

My First Love.




-We both went to the same primary school in Abuja Nigeria, from primary one all the way till primary four.After school every day I use to go to his house to play with him then. Mehn I have always been a playful child oh! from school I will not go home, I will take my change clothes in my bag to his house and eat and everything there.LOLThey had a big house with a large open field that accomodated my energetic hyper feet that actually made me weary to the point where I had to sleep, and for me to sleep in broad daylight, you will know that play dealt with me and defeated me. So yes you can say it has been there since primary one.....Not! (we just innocently played around and he has 2 sisters so we all had a lot of fun)

Fast-forward to my jss3.....

One faithful day like that oh, I was with a friend that was going on and on about some party that I was just not in the mood for. She begged and begged and was even getting annoyed with me all because I refused to go with her and so i finally put on some sloppy jeans and a shirt with the intention of just going to see my friends that I had not seen in a while for about 30mins and back to my house. So I approached the zone and low and behold O saw this dude with a blue hooded sweater sitting towards my left and backing me, hmmmmm na so the boy turn oh and I saw this dude that I saw 6years ago. He has the sexiest smile in this world oh, till tomorrow infact LOL so he gave me a biggggggggggggggg hug and all, but we did not really say much as he was getting ready to leave the party himself so we bid each other goodbye.

One bright afternoon, I had a message on facebook from this guy saying he had not seen me forever and I should facebook him my number and all that. I did all that sha and we began talking small small. I remember clearly, my then boyfriend (well I know I titled this my first love because this person I am talking about is the original love...so ehenn! LOL) and I just broke up and so I told him and he came to see me. I walked out of my gate then and I saw him walk out of a car, 'Outta my system' was playing I will never forget and I had on a black tank top with a studed heart imprinted in the middle and he was like "hmmm this one that your shirt has a heart on it, hope you are fine" and I replied I was.We began talking sha majorly from that day, his care really was magnetic to me. So on and on we went like that sha...I would be in class and he would sms me..."goodmorning my princess" and that would just distract me for the rest of the day. LOL

He disturbed me oh! hahaha (he will kill me if he sees this but he will never so oh well) he use to bother my life until i 'Pitied' him and just said okay lets do the whole dating business. Boom! it happened. He went to U.K about a month later and I was left in Abuja :( It hurt but you know the whole absence makes the heart grow fonder ish?! It worked for a while oh, I was Miss. Loyal but he never believes me till today. People use to talk alot of ish about him and give me proof right in my eye but I was always like 'let me swallow panadol for my own headache'. Everything felt so right when we were together I tell you. I was an original facebook stalker oh with him becauses that was basically all i really could do apart from webcam and all. He was ooo so romantic. I actually saw a potential future even though I was so young at the time. It was just specially exciting that he actually watched me grow up through life. That does alot to me.

After 11months of not seeing him and all, slowly I started loosing myself and doubt began to advice me on a daily basis on what i should have paid no mind to in the first place and the likes. It was a painful time and it still is when I think about it but today we speak really well. Strange but he still has a VERY SENSITIVE soft spot in my heart that I wonder if it will ever fade. It is the first love because I made my first mistakes and first everythings then and ALL my heart and soul went in. He was my first kiss also. *bllusshhhiinngg at the memory* lol.

He shortened my already short name to suit himself and till this day, gets rather upset when someone else (especially if another guy) calls me that name.LOL ......okay! so I was just walking down memory lane tonight and decided to share. I think I am done now.

Random fact:
~In Columbia, an individual can be fined up to $90,000 for gossipping.

Dueces people!
Ebony!
xxxxxxx

28 comments:

  1. Oh how sweet! Those we truly love never leave our hearts.

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  2. Awww... I guess Mariah was right... Nothing compares to your true love...

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  3. Gosh this is so sweet! Makes you just wanna rewind back to those times!

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  4. LOL trybes: They really never leave oh! dem dey kampe!

    Harry: Mariah nailed it oh! nothing really compares be it good, bad or ugly!

    Lady X: If wishes were horses! LOL

    Leggy: .....:)

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  5. Awwww, this is so sweet. At least you guys are still in touch?

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  6. Blogoratti: You could call it so! lol

    Myne: we are in touch full time oh!

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  7. How sweet.Are u guys still 2geda?

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  8. true love? dunno..... at lest you have nostalgic memories to hold on, that's a plus...

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  9. Ms Dufa: Nope we are not together o!

    AkaBagucci: I agree with you...i myself cannot call it true love. But the good memories remain!

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  10. Aww too cute!! It's great you are still in touch.

    Any chance of rekindling? :)

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  11. hahahah repressed one whch kind of amebo question is that?

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  12. i just love love jere, it's so sweet...

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  13. I loved reading this. Shoutouts to all our first loves, they will always hold a special place in our hearts and inspire stories to tell. :-)

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  14. Cerebrally busy: I love love too but it hates me sometimes :( LOL

    Original Mgbeke: Hmmm serious shout out oh! You know wasap jo! how r u?

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  15. Hmmm, @OM you better don't let the current loves hear that "... they will always hold a special place in our hearts..."

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  16. lol rethots are you still alive?? where have you been?

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  17. ...silently watching after you.

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